You do realize that if you actually dated her, saw her on a regular basis, lived with her, that she would find some fault with you, right? That she would find some things about you that drove her crazy. That she’d make demands of you that you wouldn’t like. That she’d get angry at you?
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“我為你難過。”尼克說，艾米問：“為什麼？”“因為每天早上你都必須醒來扮作你這副模樣。”
當你終于向自己的知己愛人袒露出真實的自我時，對方卻並不喜歡你的真面目，你能想象那種處境嗎？說來說去，由愛生恨便是從那時候露出了端倪，對此我曾經想了又想，我認定那就是一切的開端。
I like to think I am confident and secure and mature enough to know Nick(男友) loves me without him constantly proving it. I don’t need pathetic dancing-monkey scenarios to repeat to my friends I am content with letting him be himself.
You do realize that if you actually dated her, saw her on a regular basis, lived with her, that she would find some fault with you, right? That she would find some things about you that drove her crazy. That she’d make demands of you that you wouldn’t like. That she’d get angry at you?
So I knew I am right not to settle, but it doesn’t make me feel better as my friends pair off and I stay home on Friday night with a bottle of wine and make myself an extravagant meal and tell myself, this is perfect, as if I’m the one dating me.
I was told love should be unconditional. That's the rule, everyone says so. But if love has no boundaries, no limits, no conditions, why should anyone try to do the right thing ever? If I know I am loved no matter what, where is the challenge?
吉莉安·弗琳
